Five Freedoms

March 30, 2009

Five Freedoms of Virginia Satir

Five Freedoms of Virginia Satir

The freedom to see and hear what is here, instead of what should be, was, or will be.

The freedom to say what you feel and think, instead of what you should.

The freedom to feel what you feel, instead of what you ought.

The freedom to ask for what you want, instead of always waiting for permission.

The freedom to take risks in your own behalf, instead of choosing to be only “secure” and not rocking the boat.

– Virginia Satir

6 Responses to “Five Freedoms”


  1. [...] inner and outer permission to practice the Satir five freedoms, over and over again. This way, we transform our mental confusion into ideas with increasing [...]


  2. [...] rules are clear to all, up to date, change as the need arises, and people noticeably practice the five freedoms and will comment on anything that attracts and repels them, in congruent [...]


  3. [...] By blogging I can actually see and better understand what I need and want, my hopes and wishes, my beliefs (what little I have left that I need to maintain a meaning and purpose in my life, and how I felt over time. That helps me create the space for myself to keep practicing the five freedoms. [...]


  4. [...] a range of general and specific exercises, and include the use of “I am Okay“, “Five Freedoms“, “Essentials of Congruent Living“, and “Satir Change model” by [...]


  5. [...] to our dillemma at Satir Workshops in a “be confrontive and tolerant in equal balance” (5 freedoms) design, the aggregate can best be protected by a consensus process, and best size is 7 (plus or [...]


  6. [...] Desire for change? Reason to use your resource circle? Willingness to learn? Desire for the five freedoms, desire to Be Okay? Different experiences? [...]


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